Way too many people feel the pressure of conforming to whatever their friends are doing or, even worse, what culture tells them they should be. In the gay community, it’s don’t assume all day we meet someone who wants exactly what we wish in life.
But has this freedom become an excuse for single gay guys not to find a relationship? There’s no partner holding you back, no responsibilities to attend to, not even post-sex guilt. With singleness, yes, comes independence. But when it comes to love and sex, it’s clear that single gay guys are lacking half of the equation. Gay men in relationships have great power. Doing this would be like saying goodbye to your youngsters, the joys of variety and, more importantly, the perks to be single. Too many folks are feeling pressure to remain single not because we want to, but because we’re frightened to stop our sexual freedoms. I’ve seen a development in the gay community lately. The fear of being single can hurt your chances for a happy romantic relationship. Gay people ‘at risk of a lonelier old age’
